I’ve been tagged by the lovely Bev (ten diamonds! TEN! I apparently got gypped) to reveal 7 facts about myself. However, since I am recently engaged and therefore all I can talk about is being recently engaged, I’m going to do 7 wedding-related facts. And yes, I apologize in advance.
1. I kind of want to wear my blue Converse Chucks under my wedding gown. They’re my favorite things to put on my feet and I’ll never complain about them hurting or pinching or burning and also, they would most certainly cover my “something blue.” (Also, ‘something old’ as I’ve had them since my sophomore year in college.)
2. I envision getting married in a loft setting with floor-to-ceiling windows and a spectacular view of Manhattan. I’m thinking tall vases filled with dogwood branches that reach almost to the ceiling and are decorated with hanging votives. I want it to feel like walking into a garden (note: the chicest, most elegant garden in the known universe) floating in the middle of Manhattan.
3. I wish people would stop asking me if we have set a date yet. We’ve been engaged for five days and we’d like to enjoy it for just a bit longer before we bog ourselves down with “logistics” and “budgets” and all the other stuff that ends up shoving the romance of it all to the curb.
4. I don’t want to spend a lot on a dress. I know, I know - this from the girl that spends over $200 on a pair of jeans and more than that on a pair of shoes. But I can wear both jeans and shoes (and tops, and bags, and accessories) more than once. I probably won’t be slipping into my wedding gown for a night on the town or a breezy afternoon of shopping anytime after the nuptials. So, I want to keep it relatively inexpensive. Except, you know, I keep dog-earing the Monique Lhuillier ads in all of the bridal magazines so there’s a very good chance that while I’m all “oh me, I’m simple, nothin’ fancy” now, it will be a very different story when I start to actually try on dresses.
5. Speaking of, I refuse to try on dresses until I get back down to a size four. Which means lunch now consists of some fruit and some coffee and dinner is a salad and the gym is my new home away from home. It also means I am cranky and craving melted cheese on a plate (yes, you read that right). However, once I get over the hump and my body gets over the fact that I’m no longer feeding it rich, delicious foods consisting mostly of pasta, then all will be well. And I’ll fit into the sample sizes.
6. I think M and I want our first dance to be to “Kingdome Come” by Coldplay. It was at that concert, two summers ago in Philadelphia, that I realized that I loved him. A few days later, in bed, in the dark, we verbalized it. I want my dance with my father to be to “My Girl.” Coincidentally, “My Girl” played during my walk to work this morning, which meant that the minute I arrived at the office, I ran into a bathroom stall to wipe the tears before I could present myself to my co-workers. Hi, I’m Clink and I’m a total sap.
7. It all still doesn’t feel real. In the best way.
So now I’m supposed to tag seven people (coincidentally enough, I’m also supposed to pick seven bridesmaids and I’m having a hard time with that as well). I’m Little Miss Indecisive (Libra stereotype alert!) these days, so I’m putting out an open invitation. If you feel you have seven things about yourself to share with readers then, by all means, go for it. I, for one, love reading interesting facts about other people.
I remember you writing about drinking coffee for meals to lose weight… be careful with the size 4 thing! And make sure to get some protein after going to the gym :). Your muscles will thank you.
i found a vintage lace gown that is very similar to a lhuillier spring 2006 gown for $200 by searching online and getting gals over at indiebride.com to help. just a suggestion. indiebride is a message board that’s leaps and bounds better than the knot.
Hi Clink, not to dissuade you from changing your body however you like, but wedding dresses run one to two or even three sizes larger than normal street sizes (depending on designer). I wear a street size 8 and I fit perfectly into either a 10 or a 12 wedding dress (depending on designer; mine’s going to be a 10 probably). They’re sized much closer to the way sizes used to be (and the way patterns for clothes still are), before they started vanity sizing in the 80s. So don’t freak out if you whittle down to a 4 and you have to wear a 6 or an 8 wedding gown.
Not to be all practical and mom-like, but your wedding isn’t for at least a year, right? Do you really plan on starving yourself for a YEAR and not eating lovely, wonderful food that you enjoy…all to wear a certain-sized dress in front of the man who loves you and people who love you? A YEAR? This plan will fail! (Said with affection…)
Everyone knows what you look like. This man is in love with YOU. Not worth it.
I totally get the wanting to lose weight thing, but promise us you won’t go overboard. I’m guessing you’ll probably be engaged at least a year, right? So eating healthy and being fit, not starving yourself, is the best way. And it will probably help keep away any bridezilla moments caused by lack of melted cheese.
Clink! I just heard a report on NPR on how Target is selling wedding dresses online designed by Isaac Mizrahi. I haven’t looked, but they are all supposed to be under $200. Hmm…a Target wedding dress…
That’s how we did the “I love you” stuff, in bed, in the dark, and I felt real dirty about it (No, we weren’t having sex, but we just had–TMI) so I’m glad someone else had the same experience. It was nice.
And if this turns into a wedding blog, I am going to scream, please don’t stop writing about your other random stuff because it is funny!
Uh Crystall - I, too, had the same experience. We said “I love you” in bed, in the dark, right after gettin’ busy. We had alluded to it before, but he said it first. His exact words were “I think I’m pretty sure I love you.”
And Clink, ditto what everybody else said on the losing weight thing. I don’t know what it is but whenever I see pictures of brides from their wedding day, they always look radiant - no matter what size they are wearing. And I totally hear you on number 3. I’m always amazed when people get engaged and then the next day already have a date picked out. What’s the damn rush?! You have the rest of your entire lives to be married!
Thanks for participating. I figured you would make it wedding related, which makes it all that much more enjoyable for us gals.
Don’t be jelly about my 10 diamonds. They’re 8 point diamonds, which I’m not even really sure what that means, but that’s what X told me.
I want my wedding to be on the Hudson, on a boat, with the after party at a cute little restaurant in Hoboken or such. And I want “Stars Go Blue” by Ryan Adams as my first song. My dad and I always joke that our “song” is going to be “Twist and Shout” so that we can flail about wildly. And I know I want a strapless white A-line dress from J. Crew with simple white sandals, and I want my two dogs at my wedding.
I also don’t have a fiance, or even a boyfriend anymore, so all of this will probably be awhile…
Don’t starve yourself. You don’t want to have to live in fear of gaining a pound and/or have to do a bunch of alterations. You are a thin woman, and unless you’re getting married in a bikini, no one’s going to notice a few pounds either way. But, that being said, Congratulations!!!!
Get thee to a trunk show, says I. You can find gorgeous designer dresses on sale.
I wanted something simple yet pretty, and when one of my friends saw my dress, she said it was exactly what she would pick if she were buying a fancy dress. The thing is, it’s not satin, it’s not your typical dress. It’s lace and silk organza (I think I got that right).
At any rate, shop around and definitely try on all the luxurious designer dresses. It’s SO much fun!
OMG! I just made those cookie bar things with jam that you posted a bit back and they’re AMAZING!!!
ok, I’m totally sick now! :-/