Really? Only Wednesday? Le sigh.
I don’t think I told y’all but this past weekend, my parents met M’s parents for the very first time. In retrospect, I kind of wish that it hadn’t gone as swimmingly and delightfully as it did so that at least I would have something to blog about.
Other than, you know, how hard it was to find the perfect gold shoes to match Dress #5 (purchased! Decision made! Thank you Internets!) and how Dress # Lots of Controversy About It Being Too White is also purchased and will probably be worn to my rehearsal dinner, if I can wait that long.
But yeah, the meeting of the parents was fine. More than fine. I spent way too much time beforehand worrying about it. I even told my parents that they were not allowed to talk about politics (opposite ends of the political spectrum) or baseball (Yankees fans, Red Sox fans, could get messy) with M’s parents.
“It’s okay Clink, we’ll just talk about The Hills,” was my father’s response. But even he ultimately followed the rules and everyone genuinely got along. No awkwardness. I know, right? What the fuck? Don’t they know I need at least some drama in my life at all times?
Anyway. Here is the final wedding outfit, complete with the accessories I have so far:

Why hello there, Dress #5.

Gold shoes with 1″ heels, for both comfort and so that I’m not an Amazon woman because at 5′7 and 3/4″, that is of some concern.

Gold bangle bracelet.
I’m a little sad there’s no lace. Ah well, at least you were able to make a decision.
My parents hate my in laws by the by.
You are going to look BEAUTIFUL. And I’m so glad you got the white dress too! It will be perfect for your rehearsal dinner!
Yay! #5! So gorgeous - I love the bracelet too!
Impressed your dad knows about The Hills.
Hooray for Dress 5! I’m sure you will look fabulous.
When I saw those shoes and before I read your commentary I thought, “Those are the perfect wedding shoes. Sassy, yet the heel isn’t too high so they’ll be relatively comfortable. I’d totally buy those.” I’m a munchkin, so I should really wear higher heels, but I’m also a big baby when my feet hurt. I’d rather be short than whiny.
Love it. And see, you found shoes! And I’m envious of the parents getting along so well. Let’s have them give tips to mine and Michaels, mmmk?
I’m 5′7 3/4″ too!! But I now just say 5′8″ (but feel guilty lying) because when I would say 5′7″ and 3/4″ people would be like, “What are you? 12?” And I’d be all, “No, 12 and a 1/2.”
Anyway, cuteness. All of it. And yay for the in laws getting along. We considered having everyone come to Chicago for Thanksgiving, but decided against it since it would be our first time hosting/cooking and all.
(Sorry for the post on your post. I just finished a large mug of caffeine.)
Great outfit - I’m sure you will look wonderful!
My parents and E’s also got along quite well when they met. I was SO thankful, as I was quite nervous beforehand, too. Even if they never hang out, it just makes things so much easier.
That’s a beautiful dress; I LOVE the color. And even though our collective parents have met on a couple occasions? It’s still awkward. I hope that ends eventually.
i want that damn dress. and i’m glad you went with my choice.
and yay for the families meeting….m mentioned something about the idea of his parents joining us for turkey day, because he’s supposed to be spending it with me….uh…we’ll see about that….
anyway. love the dress. love the shoes. you’re gonna be gorgeous.
I am so happy you got #5. Knew you would make the right decision!
oooh i love it! are you gonna do a necklace too, or big earrings?
Your father knows what ‘The Hills’ is?
I LOVE that.
(Pssst. I’ve already seen this week’s Gossip girl.)
Cute! Outfit! I LOVE the shoes. Also, I totally never even thought about what it would be like to have to warn my parents off talking about certain subjects before they met Torsten’s parents. I was too busy worrying about the language barrier but now that you mention it, maybe it’s for the best.
love the ensemble so far. you’re going to look super hot, woman!
Love!
I think you are going to look both lovely and classy. Definitely a fantastic combination for “Platinum Wedding.”
TOO effin cute! Did you already tell us where you bought it?
When my parents met C’s parents a couple of years back, I was nervous BEYOND words. They are also on the opposite sides of the political spectrum, but surprisingly, it went really well. I’m happy the same went for you.
I am your exact same height! It is one of the most perfect heights in the world. Except maybe 5′8 or 5′9. But 7 and 3/4 is alright, too, I GUESS.
Good compromise- just buy both
Excellent choice!
Fantastic! I especially love the shoes, it took me ages to find a pair of gold sandals that didn’t have ridiculous heels. I reckon a pair of killer earrings and you’re ready to go…
You’re going to look so gorgeous! To second Libby’s question, cause I am such an accessories girl–are you going with big earrings or necklace?
Pretty dress.
My mom has met TB’s family a few times when she has been out here visiting me, but my dad hasn’t met anybody. I’m sure he’d get along fine with everyone, but I’m not sure about his wife. But OH wait, she doesn’t get along with anybody because she is MUTE when in the presence of anybody but (apparently) my dad. She’s not my favorite person in the world, if you couldn’t tell.
Gorgeous!! You will look fabulous!
haha le sigh nice
that is fantastic that both sets of parents got along so well!
and LOVE! the accessories for the dress. you will look simply smashing!
Aww thanks guys!
And, update: The dress is from Nordstrom, of course, I mean they should really just re-name Nordstrom “That Place With All the Awesome Dresses.”
Also, I’m totally going to wear dangly gold earrings. Preferably with a hint of blue. And I REALLY want a gold and blue paisley wrap to wear around my shoulders but that might be pushing it.
Clink - I so need to know where you found those shoes. I stay on the hunt for comfortable gold shoes and those are absolutely perfect!!! email me PLEASE!!!!! rhoyaldiva@hotmail.com
Me likey. One inch heels = so nice for the feet.
Also I’m glad you got Dress # Too White for a Wedding for your rehearsal dinner, cause I really liked that one too.
Mayhaps I should buy the blue Nicole Miller?
You dad is too cute. I’m glad everything went swimmingly. Makes me a little envious, but whatever.
Love the outfit!
oh, for CUTE. 5′7! *jealous*
well, at 4′11 and 3/4, i get to ride on BOTH the adult and kid rides at most amusement parks. not many people can do that.
your turn to be jealous.
You are SO NOT AN AMAZON. I am the same height as you (and like Tilly I tell everyone I’m 5′8″ and I wear 3-1/2″ heels with PRIDE (and I’d wear taller if I wouldn’t fall over with CLUMSINESS).
But, the shoes are cute, even if your reasoning is not.
Nicely done! You’ll look awesome. I also like the idea of saving the white dress for your rehearsal dinner. That’s the perfect occasion for it…if, like you said, you can wait that long!
Wow, I was really behind! lol. Love the selection…you will look gorgeous.
As for the White Dress of All Things Beautiful and Perfect…was that the one from Nordstroms? If so, I might need to go there and buy it now (though I’m ever-so-fair skinned…damn being an Irish Lass!).
I’m loving the wedding outfit. The in laws? Getting along? Incredible. When we did that, it was a train wreck. They haven’t talked since the wedding…. almost eight years ago. yeah.
I missed the whole series of “choose my dress” posts but I like the decision you’ve made.
And yay for parents getting along! That’s fantastic.
Um you are not an amazon. I’m 5′9″ and I still love to wear 3 inch heels. Now THAT is an amazon. Although I like feeling taller than everyone else. Sort of weird seeing pictures of me standing next to my normal heighted (is that even a word?!) friends though. Oh right, and just wanted to add that I’ve been lurking here for a while now. You are hilarious. And one more thing…I’m a fellow bride! Soooo exciting isn’t it?! I could scream. Let’s be friends.
LOVELY! You’ll be gorgeous. And? Same height, too.
I always round up and say 5′ 8″, but it feels good to admit to GOD AND THE INTERNET that I am really just not.